This episode continues Gina Fitt’s conversation with Bern Moses by challenging common clichés about love, arguing that expressions like “I love you” can diminish meaning when love is confused with control, obligation, or possession. Bern reframes love using the Greek distinctions of eros, philos, and agape, emphasizing agape as a conscious, practiced choice free of bargaining. He explains that healthy relationships expand agape, allowing eros and philos to diminish. The discussion introduces ten practical facets of lived love—such as kindness, patience, humility, generosity, forgiveness, and guilelessness—encouraging disciplined, one-at-a-time practice. The episode concludes with a call to make each day meaningful for someone else.