This episode explores the relationship between commitment, goal setting, and priorities by challenging conventional goal language. Bern argues that traditional goals often trigger fear, shame, and discouragement—the “Sisyphus syndrome”—causing people to abandon aspirations shaped by social expectations rather than personal purpose. He proposes reframing goals as “pursuits,” emphasizing adaptive commitment, patience, and strategy, illustrated by the metaphor of catching a chicken in a corn patch. Bern acknowledges that opportunity sometimes comes through external elevation, but insists lasting success depends on preparation and commitment. The discussion reframes achievement as purposeful engagement rather than uphill struggle, concluding with an invitation for continued dialogue and service to others.